Pay attention to whether his actions match his words. If he says it’s not a relationship but treats you like a partner, it can create "emotional whiplash." 4. Keep Your Own Social Circle Don't let this connection isolate you.
To help you move forward, here is a quick guide on managing a "not-quite-a-relationship" with a much older man: 1. Define Your Boundaries Pay attention to whether his actions match his words
Use "I" statements. For example: "I enjoy our time together, but I want to make sure we’re both on the same page about this being casual." To help you move forward, here is a
Have interests that are yours alone so your identity doesn't get wrapped up in his world. 5. Trust Your Gut regardless of his age or experience.
If you find yourself constantly trying to "remind" yourself that this isn't a relationship, it might be because your feelings (or his) are shifting.
Decide early what behaviors you won't tolerate, regardless of his age or experience. 2. Check the Power Dynamic
Your opinions and needs are just as valid as his, even if he has "seen more of the world." 3. Communicate the "Non-Relationship"